human suffering?

Bad news all the way. Friends parents suffering from end stage cancer. Relative facing renal failure after kidney transplant for 10 years. Good friends' marriage on thin ice. Sometimes I wonder how should I pray for them. All the striving to live the Singapore dream becomes meaningless in the face of death and heartbreak. Health is wealth that money cannot buy but too often we only discover the value when we lose it. Really wished the Almighty provide some answers to me so that I know how I can minister to them.